The media is talking about various sex toys and how to improve your relationships. Are you interested or embarrassed to talk about sex toys? Do you think they are appropriate for you and your partner? In this post, you will learn about some misconceptions about the adult toys:
Sex toys are rarely used
This is totally wrong! A lot of people are using adult toys on a regular basis. In fact, most people consider it as normal. When you are using sex toys you do not become odd one out nor does it imply something negative about the relationship you are in. Instead, it helps you to have lots of fun. You do not have to share with friends, your mother, or boss unless you deem it necessary.
Only for masturbation
As much as sex toys are mainly used for masturbation purposes, a lot of couples enjoy use of sex toys together. It does not matter whether they are male or female or homosexual or heterosexual. Most couples that are comfortable in giving a try to new things are trustworthy and open-minded.
Your partner will be offended
This is not true. You may be nervous to get your sex toy into the bedroom as you think it may hurt your partner. A sex toy can help you reach orgasm. However, it will not tell you how much it loves you. Remember that objects should not be used as substitutes for real persons. Thus, if your lover is fearful, you need to be sensitive and stroke her ego a little bit. Just like all other relationships, communication is very important.
Can cause physical injury
It is important to understand that sex toys have positive effects on your relationship. For instance, many therapists and doctors recommend them for women who find it difficult to reach orgasm. Also, if you are suffering from painful sex, vibrators will help stimulate blood flow. Some studies reveal that orgasms will help you live longer and make you look younger as others say.
No need for healthy relationships
If you are in a healthy relationship, then you should consider yourself lucky. However, you can make it even closer and stronger than before by sharing new experiences.
It is a true pleasure a birthright, and every person deserves it. It is time you own your sexuality and try what works for you. In any case, orgasms make you happier and healthier.