Most couples don’t consciously choose to be sexless together. The excitement of the connection wears off as the novelty of it does, and so does the passion. You experience new relationship pressures, such as extended work hours, financial strain, or the birth of a child, and you never seem to get over them. Finding a new hobby is more exciting such as watching the 2006 2007 nfl playoffs, and more can often affect your intimacy.
Without any intimacy, weeks grow into months, and you eventually find yourself in a no-sex union. Additionally, you might discover that your libido and mood are seldom “in the mood” at the same time. And if you’re continuously at odds, it’s possible that you don’t often feel in the mood. So what’s wrong with this issue? More importantly, what can really cause it to become a bigger, bigger sex problem in your marriage? These habits may explain it all.
Talking Less and Less
Let me start with my popular saying, “Great sex starts with emotional connection, both for men and women.” When husbands and spouses gradually cease talking, marriages suffer. One of the first things to suffer in a marriage where communication is lacking is your sexual life. Never stop exchanging ideas. Share your feelings, apprehensions, and hurts. Discuss your connection frequently. Talk about your sexual preferences and arousal triggers. During sex, talk. Never stop talking, no matter what.
Sleeping Next to the Children
Don’t get me wrong. Having a child occasionally sleep in your …